Look For Things You Like

When couples come into therapy, they start ranting off the things they don’t like about each other, what’s not working. When I start to inquire about what is working in their relationship, what they like in each other…silence. They look at me, at each other,...

Baggage Claim

  I was traveling this weekend, and as I watched the baggage claim carousel go around and around, I had an aha moment. Robin at Peloton’s words began to ring in my mind. We are not baggage claim for someone else’s bullshit.   Often, we take on other...