Look For Things You Like

When couples come into therapy, they start ranting off the things they don’t like about each other, what’s not working. When I start to inquire about what is working in their relationship, what they like in each other…silence. They look at me, at each other,...

Road Map To Marriage

“Recalculating.” How many times do you hear your GPS tell you this? If you’re like me, with a bad sense of direction, you hear it a lot. In relationships, we can easily get lost. We don’t have a savvy computer system looking ahead, alerting us to a communication...